Sling carrier/gendong

 


I bought this from Ninuk. Remember earlier that i said i want to buy the gendong and i did. I received it yesterday and decided to give it a try. So I see myself infornt of the mirror. Do i look like what others supposed to look when wearing a gendong. I am not really good at it and my baby does look like he feels different...so may be give it time...but it sure is easy to put your baby in not like sling bag...

If you are interested in buying them u may contact sis ninuk at ninuknoviati@gmail.com or also view her blogspot at my fav. blog and see the pics. When my husband is around i will ask for his help to take my picture with the gendong...;)
and post it in my fotopages... 

Good Bacteria

 


Lactobacillus acidophilus is a "friendly" strain of bacteria used to make yogurt and cheese. Although we are born without it, acidophilus soon establishes itself in our intestines and helps prevent intestinal infections. Acidophilus also flourishes in the vagina, where it protects women against yeast infections.

Acidophilus is one of several microbes known collectively as probiotics (literally, "pro life," indicating that they are bacteria and yeasts that help rather than harm). Others include the bacteria L. bulgaricus, L. reuteri, L. plantarum, L. casei, B. bifidus, S. salivarius, and S. thermophilus and the yeast Saccharomyces boulardii. Your digestive tract is like a rain forest ecosystem, with billions of bacteria and yeasts rather than trees, frogs, and leopards. Some of these internal inhabitants are more helpful to your body than others. Acidophilus and related probiotics not only help the digestive tract function, they also reduce the presence of less healthful organisms by competing with them for the limited space available. For this reason, use of probiotics can help prevent infectious diarrhea.

Antibiotics can disturb the balance of your "inner rain forest" by killing friendly bacteria. When this happens, harmful bacteria and yeasts can move in and flourish. This can lead to vaginal yeast infections. Conversely, it appears that the regular use of probiotics can help prevent vaginal infections and generally improve the health of the gastrointestinal system. Whenever you take antibiotics, you should probably take probiotics as well, and continue them for some time after you are done with the course of treatment.



Dlm vitagen ada ni...jadi it is believed can help to cure my gastric. hehehe<taken from healthlibrary.epnet.com 

blog hopping

i like to read especially people's experience. It make u view life in a different way and also thinks that u are not alone in this world yg mengalim pengalaman yg sama.

hari ni perut tak rase sedap. Kalau lah perut ni jernih..boleh tgk apa yg tak kena..ini rasa tak sedap tak tau apa dia.

Haqqeem is not feeling well again. Batuk dan selsema. Ayah dia tak risau ke? I am risau kat dia...takut nanti kene pneumonia sbb selsema lama akan buat kahak dia byk. Haqqeem was diagnosed asthma. He doesn't know how serious is asthma can be to small infants. I had too but my father is health educated. He knows how to take care.

Sometimes I wish my life was different. All the what if's liggering along my mind..But i know Allah's knows best. Has been a long time since I feel happy with ****y. I only feel happy with my son and friends.

I read happily other;s people life who have an understanding ****y.And they are happily ******d. Masyaallah..i hope to be in their shoes one day.

Tak pe la...fikir pasal benda lain...fikiran yg negatif aklan melemahkan kita....

Friendship

 


Once in a lifetime u find friends
who touches not only ur heart
but also ur soul..

Once in a lifetime u discover someone
who stands beside u
not over u..

Once in a lifetime if u r lucky
u find someone
as i have found u

Very special people
we can be ourselves with
talk with
laugh with
hope with
and believe with...

I have very few good friends...my best friends Marini is from Kelantan. I have gone through life a lot with her. We met in 1991 at ITM Segamat when we were doing our Diploma. I've met and stayed at her house. When we were single, we share sad and sweet memories together. I called her everyday at her office and her colleagues would say i am like her boyfriend. Because I would call her and sometimes speak to her everyday. She is a nice person to be with. When she got married, I have trouble adjusting to her new life coz we could not see often. I can only speak to her over the phone. The funny thing is I even started browsing through internet looking for articles on how to cope with life when ur best friend is married..hahaha. Then I married a year after she got married. Four months later, i got pregnant ..so does she. Our children is the same age but only different sex.

next is my coleagues. They are very nice people. I can be myself. We take care of each other. That is why i lasted for 5 years. The reason i stayed is also because of them. But i know life has to go on and i hope that we will be friends forever even if i have to work somewhere else.

I really appreciate their existence in my life.For me, who u choose to be ur best friends has significant impact towards ur life. The decisions that u make in life sometimes depends on what they advise.

I am very fortunate to have met nice friends. They help me to grow up and shape my mind how to see my life in a different way. (Not to mentioned my father too)... 

test

i am trying new software (at least to me)...wonder how it looks like..best gak kalau jadi...

Bad news...

 


last night my hubby came back from his night shift and give me a plastic with avon logo on it. i thought apalah ada kat dlm plestik tu..rupa-rupanya ...sculpting cream...(sabar je la...dia perli aku ker ni..!!)

Then pagi tadi, my hubby tanya dah sapu ker? I cakap le lom g. Mlm nanti le...
Tahu apa dia jawab...ala sapu la pagi dan malam cepat sket...

Dalam hati ..aduh memang dia nak aku kecikkan ni...aiseyman....

at 1.49pm got sms from best friend : "Doc jgka my hubby can go 4 1 or 2 yr je lg. Kalau dia blh sampai 2 or his 43rd bday kira miracle lah 4 his case"..aku terkedu dengar. Telefon dia and try to comfort her. I emphatise for her. Anak dia sebaya anak aku. hubby dia disahkan mengidap dilated cardiomyopathy. I check maksud dia..ia adalah apabila jantung anda adalah besar seperti biasa dan akan membuat jantung anda tidak dapat berfungsi seperti biasa dan boleh mengakibatkan heart failure...

Itulah kuasa tuhan..kalau allah mengkehendakinya akan terjadilah...sekelip mata allah tarik segala kebahagian..kemudahan yg kita sedang nikmati. Satu tahun adalah jangkamasa yg pendek..mana sempat anak itu mengenali sape itu ayah....teringat ummu amir's blog yg aku baca..ada sebab allah pilih dia utk diduga....

Aku berdoa " Ya allah ya tuhanku...panjangkanlah jodohku, panjangkanlah umur hambaMU ini...dan orang disekelilingku..jauhkanlah kami dari penyakit merbahaya..." 

Most Beautiful Reality show on NTV 7

I was able to watch this programme tonite. Dah lama tak ikut tgk2 dah ada 4 finalis. And my fav person dah terkeluar jue. Before this i heard ako's GF is in the show tapi mlm ni baru tahu yang mana satu.

she seem so sad and ako was the one who came to pick her up. i pun kesian kat dia..it's not fair and mcm sayang je cara dia terkeluar..tapi kenapa dia buat mcm tu..there must be a valid reason. Dah nak final lagi bape minggu till next phone call. well, we all don't know what really happen that made her broke the rules...

anyway, finalis yg lain mcm tak gempak je..buat org tak de mood nak tgk ending...

Scan pics of haqqeem

 


Found this in my computer. This Picasa program from Googles is good. It can find all my pictures in the computer. Things that I myself tak tahu kat mana simpan. I have been looking for this scan picture when I first started blogging and haqqeem fotopages. Tapi tak jumpa. Guna Picasa barulah jumpa.

Above is Haqqeem scan. That was the first time I saw him inside my stomach moving. He likes to sleep sideways facing backwards. Patutla bila mak bidan urut I, dia kata baby pandang belakang. Betul...Masa tu tak tahu lagi what sex. I memang nak tahu and don't intend to make it a surprise. Senang nak beli baju. Only bila 6 months baru tahu. I scan kat UH and the doktor told me it is a boy. Tak kisah la...my hubby suka la dapat boy...He already had children from his previous marriage..2 sons and 1 girl...So this is going to be his third.

Bila fikir masa bersalin tu dan mula-mula mengandung, rasa cam tak nak dah mengandung...tapi bila dah ada baby dan ingat masa kita mengandung above 5 months tu...rasa cam nak mengandung balik../hehee ;)

Insyaallah kalu dimurahkan rezeki, I want another child. Tapi kali ni adalah experience sikit...Nak check up kat swasta lah..and kalau cukup duit nak bersalin kat swasta gak...bukan tak nak kat UH..tapi malas lah nak beratur panjang for the check up dan bila masuk check up tak pun smp lima minit...

Tgk la masa tu kan nanti..eh..eh terlebih lebih berangan lak...heheh 

Food Testing

 


Today at my workplace, Museum Restaurant & Cafe ada buat food testing. We are preparing new menu for next month. We are actually serving middle eastern food.

Well above are some of the menu that will be serve. 

My 7 mth old Development - by BabyCentre.com

 


1) Bouncing up and down

Your baby can now support some of his weight on his legs, and he loves to bounce. What's more, he's probably able to sit unsupported (which will free her hands for exploring), and he'll turn when sitting to reach a desired object. He may even be able to get into a sitting position from lying on her stomach by pushing up on his arms.

2) Learning to grab

Your baby's fine motor skills are coming along, too. By now he can probably scoop things up with just one little hand and transfer them from one hand to the other fairly easily. He may also be able to clasp his hands together and sip from a two-handled cup (with your assistance). Before long you'll probably notice the noise level increasing, not only because of your baby's babble, but also because he'll find out how much fun it is to bang objects together.

To encourage fine motor activity, place a toy just out of your baby's reach and watch him try to get it. If he cries because he can't quite get it, keep giving him relaxed encouragement — but not the toy. He's just venting frustration and will become more physically confident more quickly if you don't make everything too easy for him. After a few tries, he'll be able to lean forward to grab it and then straighten himself again. Of course, this will give him ideas, and he'll soon be rocking back and forth on his hands and knees and may crawl or repeatedly roll over to move about the room. Aid his explorations and mobility by dressing him in loose, comfortable clothes.

3) Teething

While your baby may already have begun teething (the average age is five or six months, though it can start as early as three months or as late as 12 months), about now you can expect to see the two upper central incisors, then the two lateral incisors. Don't be alarmed if your baby has gaps between some of his teeth; teeth often come through the gums at odd angles, and any spaces commonly disappear after all 20 baby teeth have broken through. Once your baby starts teething, you can expect more drooling and experimenting with sounds as he adjusts to having these strange new things in his mouth.

4) Testing your authority

By now, you may already have found yourself telling your baby that the telephone is not a toy. Or maybe in your house the reminders revolve around his tossing his rattle in your face. The fact is, at this age your baby may begin testing your authority by refusing to follow your directions or entreaties. When he pushes back, he's not being disobedient or wilful — he's just curious and simply can't remember things for more than a couple of seconds at a time. The best tactic is to use a simple no, then distract him.

5) The beginnings of separation anxiety

If your baby is anxious when he's away from you during the day, his concern will be compounded at bedtime. When he wakes up at night, even for a moment, he'll know you're nearby, and will be vocal about trying to get your attention. You'll feel torn between the strong urge to scoop him up and take him to bed with you and the voices of those who tell you that to do so is to spoil him. Don't worry: it won't hurt to indulge him occasionally — not always — by bringing him into bed with you. When the separation anxiety disappears, you can teach him to sleep by himself again. Of course, if you've opted for the family bed, you'll always be close at night.

Your baby's reluctance to be separated from you may delight you but may also frustrate you at times. In either case, it might help to load a laundry basket with his toys and move it — and him — from room to room so you can get the jobs that need doing around the house done while enjoying each other's company.

6)Recognition skills

Your baby now actively engages in hiding games and can remember that the jack-in-the-box pops up at the end of the song. He's also able to recognise different tones and inflections and may burst into tears if you speak harshly.

7) Figuring out how objects relate

Your baby's beginning to understand how objects relate to one another in three-dimensional space. He may be able to sort toys, grouping items such as blocks by size. And if he admires his reflection in a window, and you suddenly appear behind his image, he's likely to turn and look for you instead of believing that you're in the mirror itself.

If you've noticed that a simple game of peekaboo is absolutely fascinating to your baby, it's because he's also starting to understand object permanence and loves games where people or things appear and disappear. In fact, one of the easiest ways to keep a seven-month-old occupied is by hiding an object under a blanket for him to discover.

8) Stimulating toys and games

Your baby enjoys playing the same game over and over because he likes predictability. In addition to peekaboo (see above), try adding classics such as round and round the garden and patta-cake patta-cake to your repertoire.

At this age, babies also tend to gravitate toward stuffed animals, both big and small. Most likely, one will emerge as the favourite security object and will soon be covered in dribble and have to accompany you everywhere. When adding new members to your soft toy collection, look for soft, well-stitched stuffed toys that can be washed. Other good toys include balls, nesting cylinders, pop-up toys, and large dolls.

If your baby has a favourite plaything or two, you may start to realise that the expression "as easy as taking sweets from a baby" no longer applies. While it used to be easy to remove things from her grasp, you may now find her protesting loudly when you take toys and other things away.

9) Is my baby developing normally?
Remember, each baby is unique and meets physical milestones at his own pace. These skills are simply a guide to what your baby has the potential to accomplish — if not right now, then shortly.

And if your baby was born prematurely, you'll probably find that it will be a little while before she can do the same things as other children her age. Don't worry. Most doctors assess a premature child's development from the time she should have been born and evaluate her skills accordingly. 

Happy New Year!!!

Happy New Year Everybody!!!

My wish this new year is just to be happy and murahkan rezeki. Semoga dijauhkan dari penyakit berbahaya dipanjangkan umur dan jodoh. I don't know what will happen this year...but i hope for the best. Last year got haqqeem...and after that time goes by so quickly..

Yesterday, saje amik cuti nak g bank, dan nak bawak haqqeem jalan-jalan. Suka bawak haqqeem jalan sbb dia suka tgk keliling...pas g bank g mid valley. Ramainye orang tak tau nak cakap. G jaya jusco nak beli sling bag untuk dia. I think it's about time already sbb yg lama dah ketat dan tinggalkan kesan kat peha dia. (he is already 8.5kg). Ingatkan nak beli gendong tu tapi somehow i don't feel comfortable with the gendong. Furthermore, the girl said i need 2 to 3 times practise to use it. I am not good with my hands though. But maybe next month if i have money i will order one and try to use it. Anyway, i bought the sling bag yg boleh letak haqqeem pandang depan.

Petang singgah umah mak then bila nak balik saw my husband motorbike. awal lak dia balik. maybe because of the new year. Petang hubby ajak beli barang keperluan. Bwk haqqeem. Wah berjalan sakan dia hari ni.

Ni terjaga kul 12 because of too many mercun and bunga api goin' on kat kawasan ni. pas tu takleh tidor so decide nak tulis blog.

Anyway, I wish all happiness...

Haqqeem's Nephew Birthday Celebration (11.11.05)

 


Earlier this month, we celebrated Haqqeem Nephew birthday. Tak ramai dtg..yg ramai sepupu dia je la..coz dia ni nakal sikit(i a bit scarred megata anak org, nasib anak i tak tahu mcaman)...asyik pukul orang. So ramai budak2 kat flet tu tak nak dtg becoz afraid of him...;) Well..budak2 tahu apa..ada beberapa pun jadila asal dia dapat potong kek..hehehe...peduli apa ramai tak ramai...(best gak pk mcm tu ek...)..kek spiderman tu i sponsored..my gift for him...hope they like it..

Semlm, dia kena tampar dgn pakcik dia..my adik ipar yg duduk sebelah rumah for bergaduh dgn anak dia. Berbekas jugalah kat pipi dia. Sure kuat..mesti berpinar mata budak tu... i mean kalau nak pukul budak pun..pukul lah di badan...jgnlah kat kepala...memangla..org dewasa mcm ni...well..what comes around..will comes aorund...I think hidup ni mcm roda...one day u buat orang...next day org buat u...(ntahla...myself..no komen)... 

7 months

Today haqqeem is officially 7 months. How fast times goes by. He was so small back then only 2.3 kg. Now he is 8.5 kg. Finished his immunization. Next wait until he is 1 year old.

I have so many plans for him...

My wish list for him :
1) Nak masukkan dia in Tumble Tots...
2) Nak buy for him the walker yg boleh tukar2 from Fisher Price RM 179.90 when he is 9 months
3) I want to send him to nursery when he is 1 years old..ni tak tahu lagi...because when he starts to speak..i want him to be able to learn to sing, recognize letters and etc..etc...
4) Have huge savings for him...

And I will keep updating my wish list...Hope haqqeem akan jadi peneman suka duka mama....and be my hero....

Boy...I love him so muchhhh...!!! 

Gastritis

What is Gastritis?

Provided by Mamas Health...

Gastritis is an inflamation of the stomach. Inflammation of the stomach means that white blood cells move into the wall of the stomach as a response to an injury to the stomach. Gastritis does not mean that there is stomach ulcer or stomach cancer.

What Causes Gastritis?

Gastritis can be caused by infection, irritation, autoimmune disorders, or backflow of bile into the stomach. Infections can be bacterial or viral. Irritation can also be caused by medications. Some of the common medications that may irritate your stomach are: aspirin or anti-inflammatory drugs. Other stomach irritants are: alcohol, chronic vomiting, excess gastric acid secretion, and eating poisons.

Gastritis can occur suddenly (acute gastritis) or gradually (chronic gastritis). Some of the disorders associated with gastritis are:

1. stress gastritis
2. Helicobacter pylori gastritis (chronic gastritis)
3. chronic gastritis
4. acute gastritis
5. autoimmune gastritis

What are the Symptoms?

Sometimes there are no symptoms at all. When symptoms are present, some of the most common symptoms are: hiccups, abdominal indigestion, loss of appetite, nausea, vomiting, vomiting blood or coffee-ground like material, and dark stools.

Can Gastritis be Prevented?

The best way to prevent developing gastritis is to avoid long-term use of irritants, such as aspirin, anti-inflammatory drugs, and alcohol.

How is Gastritis Treated?

Treatment varies from person to person and depends on the specific cause. For most types of gastritis, reduction of stomach acid is helpful. Stomach acid is reduced by medication. Antibiotics are used for infection.

Well..my medication :-

Ranitidine - an overview

Oral ranitidine hydrochloride is a histamine H2 receptor blocker used to treat certain types of ulcers and other conditions in which your stomach is producing too much acid.

It works by blocking histamine from binding to H2 receptors which then inhibits gastric acid secretion.

I have to take this medicine for a month thta go back to see the doctor...

launching & gastritis attack

Last 21st ASTRo ada buat launching of new Islamic Show - Ar Rahyan (i think) hosted by Dr Fatma...So i was fortunate that my Chef is an Egpytion. Manage to take picture with her. So happy sangat....

Then next day was a bad day for me. I got gastric attack. Smp menangis-nangis kat tmpt keje. Mula-mula try control macho but tak boleh TAHAN.... Telefon my husband no response. (guess he is still angry). Called my father (back in Ipoh)...crying and sobbing...(Remember when i were small, i always fall back to my father. Please make the pain go away)

My manager took me to the panel clinic where they gave me 2 white tables and air 'kapur' (i dunno what i was called). 2 mins after that i vomit. Then the doctor gave me the white tablest again but no progress. Sakit lagi ada la. The doctor asked my manager to take me to the hospital. I tried calling my husband to send me tapi he did not pick up the phone. (Sedih pun ada, the i know i have to survive on my own)...Luckily, I had a good and kind manager who was able to send me to the hospital. I ask my colleagues, kak misah to accompany me. She was so kind. She has to wheeled me to the emergency room and stayed until I was okay. I had 2 injection at first but still the pain won't go away. Then the doctor gave me another one. Baru LEGA....I was able to walk and eat again. The doctor took blood and ask to go for x-ray and refer me to a surgeon. They have detained me in the observation ward. The next day i can go home but i was still feeling cramp in my stomoch. The doctor said i had severe gastric where my stomach is luka. So have to watch out of no spicy food...
I kena makan ubat for a month. That night my husband still did not came...He could have come and brought me new clothes to change. Nasib my sister in law came and brought food (boy, was i hungry)...and clothes.

I can't forget the feeling the whole night. I miss Haqqeem so much and it is my first time not sleeping with him....Sabar...Fikiran yg negetif akan melemahkan kita aje...(my brother said)..So i need to be strong for my child...mama is going to be strong for you...for you my precious baby....

Kurma, Madu, Kismis

Now have to start eating 7 kurma each day ;)

Sabda Rasulullah s.a.w

"Berilah makan buah kurma kepada isteri-isteri kamu yang hamil, kerana
sekiranya wanita hamil itu memakan buah kurma, nescaya anak yang bakal
dilahirkan itu menjadi anak yang penyabar, bersopan santun serta
cerdas pemikirannya."

Kebaikan Kurma Ketika Mengandung dan Bersalin


Adalah amat baik sekali jika puan mengamalkan memakan buah kurma
Semasa mengandung kerana ini akan memudahkan bersalin nanti.Semasa bayi
dilahirkan, buah kurma juga dicalitkan sedikit di lelangit bayi. Ingat
tak kisah dimana Maryam hanya memakan buah kurma semasa melahirkan
nabi Isa a.s.Buah kurma tidak mengandungi gula yang merbahayakan malah ia
merupakan makanan Rasullullah s.a.w.Puan janganlah risau kerana takut
diserang kencing manis.Apa yang harus puan buat, makanan manis2 yang
lain puan jauhkanlah.Buah kurma tidak merbahayakan kesihatan kerana
ianya mengandungi banyak khasiat.

KURMA

Abu Abdillah a.s. bersabda: "Buah kurma adalah salah satu buah yang
berasal dari surga dan dapat mensirnakan pengaruh sihir".

Abu Abdillah a.s. bersabda: "Orang yang memakan 7 buah kurma yang
baik sebelum sarapan, maka pada hari itu dia tidak akan tertimpa racun,
sihir dan tidak diganggu setan".

Imam Ja'far Ash-Shadiq a.s. bersabda: "Barangsiapa memakan 7 buah
kurma yang baik, maka cacing-cacing yang ada di perutnya akan mati".

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Rumah yang tidak ada kurma di dalamnya,
akan menyebabkan penghuninya kurang sehat".

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Berilah makanan kurma pada wanita yang
hamil sebelum dia melahirkan, sebab yang demikian itu akan
menyebabkan anaknya menjadi seorang yang tabah dan bertakwa (bersih
hatinya)".

KISMIS

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Barangsiapa memakan kismis merah
sebanyak 21 biji setiap hari sebelum sarapan pagi, maka dia tidak akan
tertimpa penyakit kecuali kematian".

Imam Ali a.s. bersabda: "Barangsiapa memakan 21 biji kismis merah,
maka dia tidak akan melihat pada jasadnya suatu yang tidak disenangi".

Imam Ali a.s. bersabda: "Kismis dapat menguatkan jantung, menghilangkan
penyakit, menghilangkan panas dan memulihkan kesehatan jiwa".

Pada riwayat lain dari Abi Ja'far At-thusi disebutkan bahwa kismis
dapat menghilangkan lendir dan menyehatkan jiwa".

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Biasakanlah memakan kismis karena
kismis dapat menghilangkan kepahitan (empedu/cairan kuning), menghilangkan
lendir, menyehatkan badan, membaguskan rupa, mengua! tkan saraf dan
menghilangkan letih".

MADU

Dari Imam Ja'far Ash-Shadiq a.s., beliau bersabda: "Rasul saw sangat
menyenangi madu".

Dari Imam Ja'far Ash-Shadiq a.s., beliau bersabda: "Biasakanlah
dirimu memperoleh dua obat yaitu meminum dan membaca Al-Quran".

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Barangsiapa minum madu setiap bulan
dengan niat melakukan nasihat Al-Qur'an, maka Allah SWT akan
menyembuhkannya dari 77 penyakit".

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Barangsiapa ingin memiliki hafalan yang
kuat hendaklah dia meminum madu".

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Sebaik-baik minuman ialah madu karena
dia dapat mengkonsentrasikan hati dan menghilangkan dingin yang ada di
dalam dada".

Dari Imam Ali a.s. beliau bersabda: "Madu adalah obat dari segala
penyakit, tiada penyakit di dalamnya, ia dapat menghilangkan lendir
dan membersihkan hati".

Nabi Muhammad SAW bersabda: "Allah SWt telah meletakan berkah di
dalam madu dan menjadikannya sebagai obat dari rasa nyeri, dan madu telah
didoakan oleh 70 Nabi".

Tips & Doa

Tips untuk ibu-ibu yang bekerja supaya dapat merapatkan hubungan ngan anak....(didapati dari perbincangan kaum ibu-ibu di yahoogroups)

1) Terangkan kepada anak - anak kenapa mama perlu kerja. Duit tu untuk apa...

2) Wujudkan routine - lambai anak, ucap selamat tinggal & take care and be good, salam dan cium tangan.
3) Cari hobby untuk anak-anak. Tanya minat mereka dan dekati hobby mereka. Cara ini akan membuat kita disanjungi kerana kita cuba memahami diri mereka dan minat mereka.

Tuhan tidak berikan kita ujian yang kita tak dapat hadapi dan pikul. Ini semua ujian sebagai mematangkan diri. Anak-anak pun ujian dari Tuhan. Pada masa yang sama, penuhkan diri kita sendiri dengan hobby baru seperti membaca novel, menjahit cross stitch, masuk peraduan, mencuba resipi baru di waktu lapang. Jangan jadikan minda dan jiwa kosong, kerana minda dan jiwa yang kosong akan mudah 'digoda' syaitan.

Dekatkan diri dengan Tuhan dan minta kekuatan dariNYA.

Doa Keselamatan Anak (Dijauhkan dari bahaya dan perbuatan jahat orang)

Amalkan doa ni:

Selawat 3 kali
Fatihah 1 kali
4 Qul (Al Ikhlas, Al Falaq, Al Kafirun, An Nas) 3 kali
Bacakan Ayat Qursi...
tiup kat umbun anak2

Doa agar anak kita diperlihara Allah dari segala macam hasutan,bahaya yg bakal mendatang dan lain-lain perkara yang tak diingini.

Surah Al-Insyirah - 17 kali dan tiup kat umbun anak

Pengalaman Pertama

Saya melahirkan anak sulung saya pada 29.5.2005 secara ceasarian. Saya bersalin di Hospital Universiti.

Saya keluar tanda (darah) pada pukul 5.30pagi. Due date saya lagi 12 hari. Jadi memandangkan ini pengalaman pertama saya, saya tak sure adakah saya sakit nak bersalin atau apa. Takkan gugur kot..dan takkan cepat sgt..lagi 12 hari detik hati saya. Saya sorang je kat rumah, suami saya bekerja shif malam. Saya pun telefon mak saya di kampung. Dia kata itu bukan tanda nak bersalin...ada orang ambik berhari-hari utk bersalin selepas tanda keluar. Saya rasa tak sedap hati lalu sms husband...dia pun tak sure. Pukul 6.30 saya rasa sakit mcm sengugut. Saya tunggu kalau ia berulang-ulang...selang 10 minit. Jadi saya telefon kakak ipar saya. Saya tanya dia adakah ini tanda saya nak bersalin sbb mak kata bukan. mungkin lusa atau esok. Dia suruh saya terus ke hospital sbb itu memang tanda nak bersalin..tapi bukan masa itu mungkin tengahari nanti. Jadi saya telefon jiran saya untuk menghantar saya ke hospital. Dlm nak turun bawah, jumpa husband saya. Saya masuk ke hospital cakap saya ada rasa contraction selang 10 minit. Nurse pun suruh saya tanggalkan baju masuk ubat utk buang air besar...lepas tu dia suruh saya duduk atas katil dan pasangkan peralatan utk dengar jantung baby tu...doktor datang check dan bukaan ketika itu baru 1 cm. Saya memberitahu doktor yang saya GBS positive. Kalau kita ada GBS positive mesti beritahu doktor ketika bersalin dan antibiotik akan diberikan pada kita supaya jangkitan kuman tidak akan kena pada baby pada waktu dia keluar.

Di Universiti Hospital bilik bersalin dikongsi oleh 2 orang..jadi selang tirai je dgn org sebelah...pada pukul 9.30 doktor check dan dapati bukaan dah 4cm jadi dia pun pecahkan air ketuban suapay saya akan cepat bersalin. Saya tanya doktor bila nak bersalin dan bukaan perlu 10 cm untuk baby keluar. Average utk bukaan ialah 1jam - 1 cm. Lama lah lagi saya nak tahan sakit...lagi 6 jam...doktor kata tapi mungkin awak cepat sebab baru 3 jam bukaan awak dah 4cm...sakitnye tuhan je tahu...tak de perkataan yang boleh describe sakit bersalin ni....saya tak sangka akan sakit mcm tu sampai ada ketika saya jadi sesak nafas...dalam hati dok cakap satu cukup lah...(tapi skrg dah rasa mcm nak mengandung lagi..heheh)....yg tak best kat universiti hospital husband tak boleh masuk..padahal masa tu saya amat memerlukan husband saya. Tapi kakitangan dan doktor yang ada di wad bersalin universiti hospital memang best dan klass....tak de pun kata-kata maki atau marah yang dikeluarkan..kata-kata perangsang adalah....saya tak tahu orang lain tapi tahap utk menahan kesakitan utk setiap org berbeza..dan pada ketika itu tak de perasaan malu ...hanya sakit dan rasa nak jerit je....asyik asyik jerit nurse...kelakar..saya cuba zikir...saya minta epidural pada nurse pada bukaan saya 3 cm. Tapi pakar bius ketika itu tgh sibuk dgn pembedahan emergency jadi lambat sikit dia turun...dan bukaan saya sudah 6 cm pada pakar bius tu ada dan pada ketika itu tak boleh ambik epidural lagi sbb bukaan saya dah besar.

Lamanya rasa ketika itu....Pukul 12.30 doktor dtg check dan bukaan saya dah 10cm dan saya dah rasa nak meneran. Dua doktor ada pada masa tu...doktor dah nampak kepala baby dan suruh saya meneran selama 15 saat....Saya meneran sekuat hati tapi baby tak nak keluar...doktor check servik ada problem..dan doktor lagi satu tak berapa puas hati dgn kadar denyutan jantung baby..tambahan saya ada GBS positif. Doktor kata kalau guna forcep atau alat bantuan lain pun tak akan jamin baby saya keluar kerana memandangkan keadaan perut saya yang besar (sangkaan doktor baby besar) dan kadar denyutan bayi lemah..mereka tidak mahu ambil risiko..nasib doktor tak toreh di bawah..;)

Saya pun di tolak ke bilik pembedahan...dalam nak sampai ke bilik pembedahan doktor tak bagi teran..tapi nak buat mcmana rasa nak teran.....bawah dah rasa macm terbuka ada benda nak keluar...saya teran juga tapi tak keluar.....sampai di bilik pembedahan, pakar bius hanya bius separuh badan. saya amat fobia pada pembedahan...dan saya dengar cerita sebelum ni kita masih boleh mednengar bunyi perkakas pembedahan, lihat perut kita dibedah melalui lampu di bilk bedah...jadi saya minta utk dibius penuh. Dia tanya saya ada lelah/asma atau tidak..saya kata ada..jadi sebab itulah saya tidak boleh dibius penuh. Dia kata jangan takut....

Lepas dibius...hilang terus rasa sakit....dan tanpa saya sedari nurse pun kata baby awak dah keluar...dan bayi awak kecil je...(baby saya hanya 2.3kg) saya tak dengar pun baby nangis...dia diam je..tak berapa lama kemudia baru saya dengar baby saya menangis...nurse tunjuk anak saya lelaki (saya dah tahu) tak smepat pun tgk muka baby...lama juga tunggu perut saya dijahit...Dan saya pun ditolak ke wad....Masa tu dah pukul 3 petang dan saya masuk ke wad dalam pukul 4.30 petang.

Saya tak dibenarkan makan...hanya minum je....nurse takut saya muntah...saya ada gastrik..mlm tu saya kena gastrik..pedih sgt perut saya....esok baru nurse suruh saya makan, dan suruh saya bangun dan berjalan-jalan...saya boleh tolak baby saya, dukung dia...

Walau apa pun cara kita bersalin, kita tetap akan hadapi dugaan dan kesukaran. Mana ada proses bersalin yang senang. Allah akan tetap menduga kita...Saya percaya dalam melahirkan, membesarkan anak tak de cara yang senang...sebab Allah nak kita hargai pemberianNya....supaya kita menghargai rezeki yang diberikanNya...

Sekarang setiap kali saya tgk anak saya, Ithzzanee Haqqeem..saya akan ingat setiap detik mengandungkannya, melahirkannya dan membesarkannya. Semoga dia tak akan lupa mama dan ayah dia....